A Therapist For When Work Starts Costing Too Much
I’m Erika Mills, a Registered Psychotherapist offering online therapy across Ontario. I work with nurses, educators, executives, social workers, and other helping professionals who are still showing up at work — but privately running on empty.
Most people who reach out aren’t in crisis. They’ve been carrying responsibility, decisions, and other people’s wellbeing for a long time, and something has quietly stopped working. That’s what this practice is built for.
You don’t have to be certain you need therapy to reach out.

Experienced care for Health Care Workers, professionals and executives
Many of the people I meet are not overwhelmed because they lack coping skills. They stayed steady for a long time. What changed is that the responsibility accumulated without reset. They begin second-guessing decisions, replaying interactions after hours, or feeling pressure before the day even starts.

I’m Erika Mills, a therapist for people whose work asks a lot of them
My training developed inside environments where people are expected to keep functioning under pressure, which shapes how I approach therapy.
People usually want to know a few practical things before reaching out.

As a virtual practice, I am legally authorized to provide psychotherapy services to residents across the entire province of Ontario, including Toronto, Ottawa, Hamilton, and rural Northern Ontario.
If you reach out, we start by figuring out what changed in your work experience and why it now feels unsustainable. I’ll tell you what I think is happening and what recovery would realistically involve. From there you decide whether working together makes sense.
What The Consult is For
Your free 20 minute consult is to clarify three things:
1. What kind of depletion this is
2. What kind of help you need
3. Whether I am the right fit for your situation
There is no expectation to continue, If another type of support fits better, I will say so.
You can take time to think afterward. No decision needed on the call.
- Moral Injury | Burnout | Depression | Grief | Helping Professionals | Recovery | Spiritual Identity | Start Here | Stress Leave | Work Stress
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